The Zen of Old Dogs
By Francis Battista
Bop is a dog. A small black and tan chow mix.
She spends most of her waking hours with her one eye glued to
the crack beneath the bedroom door where she will occasionally catch
a glimpse of some cat paws padding about on the other side. You know
when the paws are happening because either she lets out a kind of
whoop or she rolls her extra round little body on its side, waving
all four paws for balance, trying to keep her eye at best
cat-viewing angle.
She looks for all the world like a slightly worn out teddy
bear. One black button eye is missing and one of the hind legs is a
bit askew. The fur has a tattered appearance as if from years of
Teddy being dragged around by generations of adoring children.
Bop is old. She spends most of her time asleep, usually not
far from my desk. Watching her snoozing contentedly is one of those
things that make me happy. I don't know much about her life up to
the time that she came to live with my wife Silva and me and the
rest of the crew. I know she had some rough times, as witnessed by
her scars and loss of an eye. I guess what makes me happy seeing her
just lying there is that, for her and for most of the old dogs
around here, the past is the past, and now it's all OK. She is as
happy as a clam.
That's one of the great things about old dogs. They are easy
to please and they radiate gratitude. Sure, you can't take them on
cross-country hikes. That's for the young dogs. But you can watch
them sleep and you can step over them like a bunched-up throw rug
that is always in the wrong place without bothering them. If you're
sweeping and they don't feel like moving, well, you can just slide
their bed, dog and all, to a more convenient location.
That's not to say there is no action. Occasionally they get
so excited about some ordinary thing that they gambol like a lamb or
do some silly puppy thing. (Despite her arthritis, Bop's short legs
carry her roundness on walks with a determined blur.)
Now, everyone in animal rescue work knows that it's easier to
find homes for puppies and kittens than it is to place older pets.
We've all heard things like, "I want the dog to be my dog. I don't
want to inherit someone else's problems."
Well, in addition to the adage to be careful of what you wish
for, this is just plain old puppy poop. It's not people that make
dogs into amazing and remarkable creatures. They are amazing and
remarkable creatures. We don't love them because they can do tricks
or are exquisitely mannered. We love them because, well, they've got
that whole crazy dog thing hard wired into their brains and they've
got humans pretty well taped, too. An old dog may not be your dog,
but with a minimum of patience, you'll have a one of a kind
friend.
I recall hearing a Buddhist teacher describe the exalted
state of openness to which he aspired - a stage of development
wherein he would have nothing to defend or protect, where the world
could come and go without disturbing his being. He called this "The
Old Dog State."
I think I know what he meant.
Adopting an Older Dog
JoAnn Rando-Moon, who is doting Mother Hen to the seniors at Best
Friends Dogtown, says most older dogs just want to know four things:
Where's the couch, where's the yard, where's the water bowl, and
when do we eat? Here's some more of her motherly advice for when you
adopt an older dog:
Provide the best food you can, preferably
with no by-products or preservatives. JoAnn also likes Rescue
Remedy, available at health stores, to deal with any stress that
might arise from moving into a new environment.
Give newcomers a special place with their
own new, comfy bed so they know that they are in their new home.
Exercise your 7- to 10-year-old dog as much as is
comfortable. But don't push your 10- to 12-year-old to keep
up with younger dogs. On longer walks, have plenty of rest periods.
Always check with your vet.
Regular vet checks are important. Keep an
eye on hips, heart, teeth, and eyesight. Stay ahead with preventive
tooth care and supplements to help keep joints supple and
strong.
Be patient. It may take a while for your new
friend to learn new routines and it may be that you have to learn a
few new routines yourself!
Teaching you new tricks. You may be
surprised to see an old dog trotting out old tricks and games when
he settles into his new surroundings. But if your old adoptee turns
out to be more of a crotchety couch potato than a discarded gem,
remember always that you are saving a life. Besides, his teeth are
probably nowhere near as sharp as they used to be!